This is the last of a three-part series. Click here for Part One, which lays out Parker Palmer's description of how we "kill" people. Part Two talks about how anonymity fosters killing. More than a decade ago, as I was just beginning to imagine shifting from “lawyer” to “pastor,” a fellow layperson dared to say some true words that I’ve never forgotten. He said I must pay more careful attention when someone spoke to me. “What?” I said (because I hadn’t been listening very well). He explained that sometimes, when he was speaking to me, it felt like I was distracted, … [Read more...] about The People I’ve Killed: the church as a no-kill zone (Part 3 of 3)